say what?

someone once told me there was no point in being nice because people would A) take advantage of you, B)think you had ulterior motives behind it, or C) assume you're not genuine.

i believed it for a while, and still do in a way but probably just dont care as much. i spent many many years being so miserable that i treated everyone around me like shit.

it got me nowhere. Being nice doesnt exactly get me places, but at least I feel better about who I am.

However, this doesnt mean you have to be nice to everyone in the world obviously, but you get the point.

you live and you learn.

game night

Todd and I bought a game last night that is so so so funny. It's called Dirty Minds and it's not like some sexified game or anything like that. I mean seriously, we bought it from Barnes & Noble. But if you have a dirty mind it makes it so hilarious.

Basically you get 3 clues that sound dirty and you have to try and guess what the word is, but the word is totally not even anything dirty.

For example here's one that Todd actually guessed right:

-You never know when I'm going to come.
-I last a long time when conditions are right.
-You never know how many inches you'll get.

Answer: Snowstorm

We live an exciting life apparently. Whatever board games rule. At least we were laughing our asses off the entire time.

:]

it's really pretty amazing how a simple unexpected sentence can really brighten a mood.

it's very much appreciated.

is the view of who i am really that far off?

what is the deal with this week?

i want to go back to 2 weeks ago when i wasnt questioning a damn thing.

mamadada

i enjoyed reading this.

i really wish people could just accept that not everyone wants kids and that it doesnt make you "weird". It would also be nice if people could understand that not being a mother does NOT make you less of a woman.

however, i would like to say that i have the cutest nephews ever and some of my friends have the most adorable kids. i am no child hater.